Is it time for a change? There’s often a desire for renewal as the seasons begin to shift. And while we’re not encouraging a total overhaul (you’re great as you are), if you do have the urge for a refresh, or something to signal a new chapter, you’re not alone.
Before you reach for the scissors (we’ve all seen Fleabag), perhaps consider an alternative route. Instead of a dramatic chop or questionable fringe, why not turn over a new literary page instead?
There’s no better way to reinvent yourself than through small, intentional mind shifts – led by a transformative novel or memoir. So put down the scissors, let the trim wait and get inspired by a book that might just change you from the inside out.
Outline by Rachel Cusk
In Outline, the first of a loosely connected trilogy, a woman goes to Athens to teach a writing course. There, she is drawn into the orbit of a number of compelling characters who share intimate details of their lives, while the narrator barely scratches the surface of her own story. The author almost invents her own literary language here, nailing dialogue that articulates emotions that are remarkably difficult to put into words. Sun-soaked and full of lush description and humble truths, Outline is the perfect read for if you’re looking for a meaningful book on writing, connection and the ongoing search for reinvention.
Becoming by Michelle Obama
If you’re looking for some inspiration, look no further than Michelle Obama’s powerful memoir. In it, she reflects on her journey from Chicago’s South Side to becoming a student, lawyer, wife, mother and First Lady. At its heart, it’s a testament to how identity is in constant flux, as she reminds us that we can reinvent ourselves at any time, no matter where we are in life. It’s inspiring, motivating and, even if you haven’t been First Lady of the United States of America, you can learn so much from her vulnerability and hard-earned wisdom.
Less by Andrew Sean Greer
Less is more in this charming, clever read. In the mood to reinvent yourself? Follow in the footsteps of Arthur Less. Struggling novelist and hopeless romantic Arthur flees heartbreak when his on-off not-boyfriend of the past nine years announces his engagement to someone else. Rather than confront his woes head-on, Arthur accepts every literary invitation he’s been putting off for the last few years, using travel as a chaotic coping mechanism (we’ve all been there). He’s the definition of catching flights not feelings, and his endearing misadventures make him the perfect blundering protagonist to fall in love with.
The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
Joan Didion’s memoir chronicles the devastating year following her daughter Quintana’s severe illness and sudden death of her husband. A warning: this book is unflinching in its portrayal of grief and some parts are intensely raw. Joan writes with stark honesty that doesn’t gloss over any of the wild emotion, chaos, memory loss, fear, superstition and disorientating effects of losing a loved one. Through her cyclical reflections and recurring mantras, she shows how coping with loss isn’t about moving on but learning to grow around it. The result is a transformative and heartfelt meditation on resilience and endurance. This memoir is a gift, suited to anyone confronting loss or wanting to examine their perspective on life and love. Read for a rejuvenating, cathartic cry.
Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life by Héctor García & Francesc Miralles
Ikigai, often translated as ‘a reason for being’, is the title of this lovely, accessible little self-help book. It’s a practical guide which explains ikigai as the four-way intersection of what you love, what the world needs, what you can be paid for, and what you’re good at. It serves as a reminder that a sense of purpose is the driving force in our lives, and those that cultivate a strong sense of ikigai tend to live longer, more fulfilled lives. Ultimately, rather than suggesting huge life upheavals, the book champions soft reinvention, sustainability and gentle shifts to nurture contentment and longevity. It’s the ideal companion to your cafe journalling session.
